For example, Yagan says things people often list as dealbreakers, like users who smoke or are of different political parties, tend not to be.
But the fear that online dating is changing us, collectively, that it's creating unhealthy habits and preferences that aren't in our best interests, is being driven more by paranoia than it is by actual facts.
Algorithmic matching services like e Harmony and Ok Cupid don't fare much better.
A couple of months ago, I was sitting at a bar minding my own business when the woman next to me did something strange.
Flippancy aside, I realize not everyone may believe in soulmates or even marriage for that matter, but whatever your intent, do you find yourself wondering if online dating even works? Studies show that they are unable to make successful selections.
This could be because, as humans, we have a tendency to not know what we really want.
That, in the words of its own author, contradicts a pile of studies that have come before it.