Unfortunately for us, when we decide we prefer riding the queer train and hop off at station “Girl-On-Girl,” there is no tour guide to greet us and lead the way (which is particularly sad, seeing as lesbians make for excellent tour guides). It wasn’t so long ago that I was a wide-eyed young gay hungry for the answers to a slew of my pressing questions about lesbian dating. We are taught the rules of the boy-girl dating game at an early age.wrapped up last week, fans were delighted to find out that the mother of Ted's children was his soul mate. Because she was just like Ted: they shared the same dorky interests, a similar sense of humor and a taste in yellow umbrellas. And many complained when (spoiler alert) in the final minutes of the episode, Ted decides to court Robin, a character who in many ways is Ted's opposite.In the search for a partner, we struggle to determine who's our best match. —the guy who's calm when you're emotional; the girl who's organized when you're messy?
The gods split each creature in half, separating one being into man and woman. We now spend our lives looking for our soulmate, the one who makes us whole—though it's unclear whether that other half is just like us or the yin to our yang.Do you think a lesbian can date an FTM or transman (as some would prefer) and still identify as lesbian while respecting the persons gender?A lot get really pissed off about this for some reason.I vowed as I left his place in the middle of the night that I would never put myself in that dangerous of a situation again.And even though I now make sure people know my identity before I’m alone with a potential partner, there are still some aspects of this interaction that seem to show up in my dating life no matter how many precautions I take. He had just moved to Atlanta from Chicago and had this whole stereotypical macho thing about him.