Black women have told me it's because I'm a sellout.
The white men who can get past the mental anguish of my black penis tarnishing "their" women think I'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women.
Though I stand with the Sistas in their struggle to stop their men from having sex with our women, what is more important to me is why White women go with Black men.
Just from personal observation, it is for one of two main reasons (at least in America): a) They are fat and/or ugly, and can get a lot more attractive Black male than they could a White man (at least in terms of physical fitness, not trying to argue that a Black man’s face is ever more attractive than a White man’s), or b) They hate their fathers and have a subconscious drive to destroy their bloodline due to this deep-rooted hatred.
The raping of African-American women by plantation owners and other powerful whites during this period have cast an ugly shadow on relationships between black women and white men.
Incredibly, anti-miscegenation laws remained on the books until the latter half of the 20th century, making interracial relationships taboo and posing barriers to mixed-race couples.
A major reason interracial relationships continue to carry stigma is their association with violence.
We ended up hitting it off, but it wasn’t until our first date that I realized I had underestimated the wingman’s abilities.
The guy did, in fact, have some kind of black girl fetish.
The concept of a black man in a relationship with a white woman is a "thing" that people have an opinion on, and that opinion comes with an entire set of stereotypes, fueled by racist ideology, a complicated past, and sometimes even pop culture.