When you discover your husband using online dating sites, you will automatically imagine the worst, that he is following through and is probably meeting other women. That is probably not happening, and it is not too late for your marriage, even if it is. Reactions, as you recall from biology, are instinctive responses with one purpose: to save your life.
Before you read more I want you to ask yourself a question. Now, in our program, which many women have used to recover their marriage we include an amazing technique to help called the SEW, and anyone who tells you that all you have to do is this, or that, and everything will be fine is asking too much.
This definitely appears to be more of a male thing.
At least, in terms of sending the pictures unrequested.
I was personally thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company, because offering illicit escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering wine to an alcoholic.
Getting him to confess his sins and change his ways is the wrong approach. We get emails all the time through our free question portal from women who confronted their husbands. A friend of mine, we'll call her S, met a real doozie online. She said the guy was attractive and smart in his profile; flirty and nice in communication. In his profile, he says he's done everything, seen everything, hooked up just to have sex, etc., but is now looking for an intellectual connection. They get to emailing, he asks her out, she agrees, and then he comes out with: "I feel like I should be up front and let you know that I'm not looking for something serious; more of a sexual connection." What? If you can understand that and want to get a drink, let me know." He writes back, "Sure, if you want to get a drink' I'm up for it." She is confused (Why did he put quote marks around "drink"? But I mean, everything is hanging out."Can you believe?? She's never met him before; she doesn't know him. The fact is, women are told that being sexually bold in such a manner is shameful and makes them a slut.